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Choice Theory and the Primacy of Relationship in Learning

William Glasser, introducing Choice Theory, writes "if we are not sick, poverty stricken, or suffering the ravages of old age, the major human problems we struggle with ... are caused by unsatisfying relationships" (Glasser, 1998a, p.ix). When he looks at the problem of academic failure, Glasser sees its root in the way teachers and students interact. He states that the "main reason so many students are doing badly" in schools is a "destructive, false belief" that kids ought to learn whatever we want them to learn, and that they should be punished for any refusal or failure. He calls this false belief, and the behaviour it creates, "schooling" (Glasser, 1998a, p.237).

According to Glasser, "schooling" is an example of something he sees everywhere in our society. He calls it "external control psychology" (Glasser, 1998a, p.5) or the" ancient I-know-what's-right-for-you tradition" (Glasser, 1998a, p.4). This is the same topdown, didactic, expert-driven model of human education that humanists deplore and groups like the NAEYC speak out against.

For Glasser, an external control approach is destructive because it damages human relationships and makes impossible the kind of "learning as social transaction" Vygotsky described. "Teaching is a hard job when students make an effort to learn," he writes. "When they make no effort, it is an impossible one" (Glasser, 1988, p.1). Glasser believes that teachers can encourage learners to make the effort by building a positive relationship with each student.