Most participants expect an honorarium (usually between $3 and $10) for participation in groups. Food is also appreciated, and in some cases, required. As a member of the UpWords team said,
It is great to see people coming back because they want to be part of the group, not just for the money — but people also need to be paid for participation. (UpWords Focus Group)
And on good days, they can be selective:
Everybody thanked Betsy for the meeting and said it was better than the Vandu survey — you only get $3 there. All the participants collected their $10 and left. (Focus Group #1)
Know that you are loved
To all the women around Vancouver and the World —
Feel good about yourself.
There are a lot of people that love you.
Don’t forget: you’re not a punching bag.
For anyone. At all.
You have a lot to give to people.
Let someone know where you are going
and what time you will be done.
Don’t forget to enjoy life.
When you see someone you know
that needs a hug, give one.
Be safe. You are loved always.
Your friend
A.
WISHful Thinking, Winter 2007