Julie and Jane state that they were enrolled in a modified program in school
and recognize their limitations when it comes to helping their children with
homework. Jane admits that even then "[I] had a hard time to understand
what I was reading when I was - I was in high school. It was discouraging." In
discussing the notices and homework that her children bring home, she comments
that "sometimes there once in a while a questionnaire is there,
I'll have to stop and think. But then, other than that there's not too bad…His
- uh - homework…Once
in a while there I'll have to observe there and just look at it." Jane
explains that when her oldest son in grade 7 has difficulties, she is unable
to provide
assistance. She says, "sometimes I have a hard time helping
and stuff… because
it's regular grade 7 work and I didn't do regular grade 7 work…I was
in a modified class so it's like, I can't [help him]."
When the homework routine was discussed with Natalie, she explains that
she had been facing problems since the beginning of the school year in getting
her son to do his work:
First week after school started this year, I was
already on the phone to the teacher. You know, I'm very particular what
I can do with them at homework time…But I said, "You know if I can't
get him to do it, it will be incomplete and he'll have to stay after school
and do it…"
She reported that recently the problems escalated, "Now it's -
last couple of weeks - it's 'I'll do it later, I'm not doin' homework now
Mom.
Here is my bag, see you.' He's out the door, eh." Natalie describes
how homework time goes in her household:
I mean we could start homework, if he got home at 2:30 from
school, it would be 5 o'clock. And okay, I mean it would be done. Sometimes
it wouldn't
be done. And I have learned now to do what we can do. When it becomes
stressful, it's time to stop.
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