So anyways I ended up having the Health and Community Social
Services at my Door…And I'm saying, "like what's this for?" Now
I'm stuck with the Public Health coming into my house once a week to do
observations
on [the baby] and they try to help me to
correspond with [my older son] cause they know that just dealing with him
alone is 20 times more stressful than it is just taking care of the baby.
Jill states that she is tired of trying to sort things out with her older
son and really doesn't know what more she can do. She shows signs of frustration
in dealing with him, "I'll tell him something…and five minutes
after, he's
back to doing it again…I keep telling him the dangers of what he does
and he just doesn't seem to want to realize…that there is dangers involved.
Like, and I'm at my wits end with him."
At the time of the study, Jill's son, as well as Julie's son and eldest
daughter, and Jane's eldest son were all being treated for attention deficit
hyperactivity disorder. Jane's son has an additional diagnosis of Tourettes
Syndrome and she also describes him as suffering from "a lack of memory [and
damage affecting] the left side of his brain." In describing his conditions,
she readily rolled off her tongue the names of the three drugs he was prescribed,
one of which he has been taking since he was four years old. Jane adds that
her son has been a "handful" and monitoring her son's drug regime
requires vigilance because there have been a few incidents, "We had to take
him off because there's too much, si-side effects for him. He was uh - really
off the wall and out of control at school so we had to take him off his anti-depressants.
He was taking outraged burst fits…tantrums." She
states that her son has regular appointments at the Mental Health Clinic
after being referred by the social worker. His treatment also includes courses
in
anger management and violence prevention.
Andrea, Natalie and Michelle all
have children with learning disabilities. These children are receiving
a variety of support services each week at school, such as speech therapy
and occupational
therapy from support staff that travel to the school. Additionally, the
children each have individualized special education plans and receive remedial
programming
from Tess, the Methods and Resource teacher at school. |