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b. Support functions (success or failure)
A recent report by Jean Skelhorne on the situation facing mature
women who enter university as undergraduates, while focusing on educated women,
provides the following description of a single mother of two small boys whose
problems in trying to complete her education are not unlike those faced by less
well educated women: (1)
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She was up against all the barriers faced by a mature
student ... anxiety about academic ability, lack of time, self-doubts, stress,
a "second-shift" style of living, as well as the extra problems encountered by
a single parent -- the lack of adequate day care centers or reliable
baby-sitters, the daily uncertainty of domestic emergencies, the feeling that
nobody cared, the difficulty of meeting deadlines because of so many
responsibilities, and the perennial problem of lack of money. She was driven by
the need to upgrade herself so that she could get a better job to support
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Another report from Lillian Zimmerman at Douglas College in
British Columbia says: (2)
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I cannot stress the crucial importance of ... the
acquisition of psychological skills. What we, who are programming for women,
find is that endemic in women are feelings of low self-worth, lack of
self-esteem and confidence in themselves. It is like a chronic low-grade
infection. The statement I have heard over and over again is "There must be
something wrong with me"... This social isolation, I'm afraid, is part of our
entire socialization process which imbues women with secondary status in our
society, and their self-images - the subjective part of their exclusion from
the prestigious work of our society. What women do is usually regarded as of
secondary importance, or as being frivolous.....
The largest response (in programs) has been, and will
continue increasingly to be, for those short-term, skills acquisition courses
which are of a self-developmental nature consisting of self-assessment,
confidence building, goal-setting, and so on, and transition courses such as
how to take a first step. Here women's resource centers have and will have
vital roles to play in offering counseling and emotional support
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(1). Jean Skelhorne, Does anybody care?
(Toronto: Ontario Institute for Studies in Education, Department of Adult
Education, 1975), p. 11
(2). Lillian Zimmerman, "What should continuing
education be doing for women", PACE Newsletter, volume 7:2, 1978.
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