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Women believe that there are
some things they know about how women learn, and how they work alone and in
groups. They also know what they have been told about women.
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I remember growing up, hearing this thing of "Get a bunch
of women together and they're a bunch of cats." So, you go through life
believing this for a long, long time-even though you personally have
experiences with groups of women where that isn't true. And it takes you like
10 million experiences to realize that that's just a bunch of baloney. That was
somebody else's bias.
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Because [women] have been nurturers and caregivers they are
also very sensitive within a classroom environment. They're very co-operative,
sensitive to other people's feelings, co-operative in terms of helping other
people toward self esteem and feeling good about themselves...I also find that
women like to work together, they like to have fun together, they befriend each
other. It becomes an emotionally-involving, emotionally-charged as well as
intellectually-charged environment.
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I think [women] are less passive. I think maybe they know
more about how they learn. They comment more on what they've noticed about how
they've learned. Whereas I get more often from the male students things like,
"Well, you decide what we'll do. You're the teacher." The women students more
often don't say that to me when I say "What do you want to do." Something open
like that. They'll say "You know what really works for me..." or "I had this
book and it was really good" or "My tutor did this and I really liked it" or
"Once we did this, let's do that again." They're much less passive. They're
much more, they know more about what works for them.
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[The men] just do academic stuff...When they're on the
computers upstairs, we're down here doing our classroom stuff which is based on
discussion and projects. When they're down here, they're studying things
outside of themselves. Like, we study things inside of ourselves and inside
other women and they study geography. They did science experiments, mechanics.
No discussion of self at all. It's like women are expected to be concerned
about themselves. Men manipulate things.
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When you get a group of women, it doesn't take very long
before the socialization starts to happen. Whereas with a group of men, if you
don't make it happen, it's not going to happen.
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I know that from what I can see the women students that we
have here are very happy to be here. They are happy with the way that [the
women instructors] run things because they know that they are getting a fair
shake. And they feel as though they can do some- thing and progress.
And the men students who understand that, are good students.
The male students who don't understand that, who have more of a typical male
model, have a bit more of a time adjusting. Because they see women as different
than what [the women] are trying to show us.
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My own experience ... is that working across an ability
range is easier. I can imagine myself taking 0-3 and 4-6 without any difficulty
if it is all women...My experience is that it's easier with women because of a
natural tendency to be patient and to work with each other-their style, mostly.
And, mostly, to be less directly demanding of a certain definable academic
result. They have a bigger view often of what they're doing here.
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