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Throughout the research
process, women continued to talk about the positive experiences they have had
or the impact woman-positive activities had on their
program.
[How would this meeting be different if we had men in it?]
- I think it would be extremely different! I think that a lot
of us would shut up! I don't think we would be as open as we are in talking
about...the things we've been talking about... because they're men.
- Maybe because you start to feel like they might not
understand. It's like sometimes you're talking about certain things you just
don't want to talk to men about. Because sometimes women just like to talk
among themselves. I'm sure men are the same way. Because they feel sort of self
conscious too in opening up there problems. They talk to other guys all the
time. Or to their friends.
- Well usually when you're in a group discussion women are
more apt to be more open I think it's just because the way you feel, you feel a
bit more uptight maybe...You talk about how they're going to react... I feel a
lot better in all-women groups just because you think well, she understands how
I feel about it, just because she is a woman. Because she's got the same
problems maybe. Just even though she's a different kind of person. You think,
she knows how you feel. It's just easier talking. You feel more comfortable
because they're the same as you.
- I like it better in a mixed group, really...Sometimes these
men, it's good for them to know our problems. It's nice to be able to
understand men, to tell them how you feel. Sometimes I think there's not enough
communication between people. They do have all the same needs and wants. They
do have all the same problems really.
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- I think to some extent there is a lot of discussion around
[differences men and women] here among the staff. And I've wondered whether it
came from the fact that a women's group was run here or maybe it always was.
But I also heard [women students] remembering things that came from the women's
group. Or understandings that happened. Like I think that the whole thing
around trying to get a childcare fund really came or gelled from the women's
group. I mean it may have been talked and thought about before but I think that
there, that there were actions actually taken about it. And I really feel like
that women's group affected how we planned [another group]. I feel that. I feel
that people hark back to it.
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- Once [immigrant women re-entry programs] get going they just
have a wonderful time and they really just make all kinds of progress. Just
incredible. And they're so happy and they're so together. And I think part of
it is because it happens to be a group of women that relate really well
together. Better than a group of men, I would say, better than a co-ed
group.
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- The women's program changed the program and me and everybody
here on how we work with women. [Because?] Because we talked about it. And we
were forced to look at things that we didn't have to look at, in order to make
it accessible to women.
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- We had a group [of Native students] who had come through from
literacy to grade ten, and then through advanced level, all together as a
group. What happened was there was this chemistry that took place within that
group: They were very articulate, they were very clearly directed... And what
they did is they made changes in the whole college because they said these are
the problems that we are facing as a specific group... So I see that when we
get a group that's going to be all-women that we're going to have that same
kind of impact.
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