| Blocking
out |
Blocking out is a coping skill that prevents a woman from
gaining full or partial memory of traumatic experience. A woman may have
blocked out (or can't remember) large parts of her life.
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| Body
Memory |
This is re-experienced body sensation and/or pain
originally associated with the trauma. The body will always remember what was
done to it.
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| Boundaries |
Because her private space was violated, a survivor has to
learn that she does have the right to establish boundaries about where
and when people can touch her.
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| Denial
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A survivor may resist accepting the reality of the
traumatic event; it feel safer to not believe. Denial is a way to cope with
memories. ("There's no way this could have happened to me. I must be crazy.")
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| Flashback |
A flashback is an intrusive recalling of a traumatic
event(s). It can be experienced by visualizing the event or moment and feeling
numb or detached. An event can be re-experienced emotionally, with or without
memory of the event. Flashbacks can include "body memories."
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| Healing |
To heal, a survivor must re-live the feelings and pain
she was unable to feel at the time of abuse. Healing can be long and highly
traumatic as a woman attempts to integrate the fragmented parts of herself.
"You can't heal what you can't feel."
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| Multiple |
This is a person who has survived and coped by developing
, multiple personalities (MPD). It is a form, or level, of dissociation. Some
women may notice severe and rapid mood swings, loss of time, changes with
vision, headaches and other symptoms, although those these symptoms alone do
not define MPD.
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| Numbed
Out |
This means a person is unable to feel anything.
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| Panic
Attack |
A panic attack is feeling out of control; a woman may
feel like she may faint or die. She learns how to breath deeply and work her
way through an attack. |