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Violence prevention is any action or process that
promotes our right to feel whole and secure. |
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Simply stated, the Council tries hard not to just talk
about the various social problems that arise in our community, but to do
something on every conceivable level of social action. So when, for example,
participation in community meetings on public security and safety seemed futile
(as ideas in the meetings were often infused with ageist and sexist
assumptions), we decided to rechannel our energies on what could work within
our own model of empowerment, mutual respect and mutual aid.
 David
Singleton |
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Violence prevention is understood as any action or process that
promotes our right to feel whole and secure including our right to physical,
emotional, and financial autonomy and well-being, as well as our right to
participate freely in our community and beyond. In other words, that the
consciousness of our immanent worth is as important a factor in any violence
prevention strategy as the most structural levels of social change and social
action.
Some of the violence prevention strategies exercised at the NDG
Senior Citizens' Council include:
- Annual participation in International Women's Day
festivities. Last year, for example, women of all ages were invited to prepare
a dish of food representative of their cultural heritage. We hoped to celebrate
the Chronologies of women, the traditions of women's work and, of course, to
make visible our community of women. We invited two Mohawk women who are
members of the Longhouse to come and speak to us about their traditional roles
as women living in contemporary Mohawk society. This was most definitely an
empowering experience for all who attended and we receive many requests to have
these potluck luncheons for women on a regular basis.
- Courses by the Montreal Assault Prevention Centre. So
successful was the center's original demonstration in the fall of 1990 that we
have continued to run it once or twice a year, as often as the Centre is able.
I took the first series of classes with women who were predominantly over the
age of 60 years. We were reminded of the wisdom in our bodies, our intuition,
our strength, our power-from-within, and we amazed ourselves as we experienced
putting our power-from-within into "action". This course celebrated our
strengths as women and validated the pain and fear that we experience as women
living in a man-made world. We unlearned many of the practices we were
socialized to believe are natural: passivity in the face of danger; denial of
our feelings at critical moments in our lives; and to be afraid of men because
they are made of unbreakable materials and substances whereas we are
constructed to break oh so easily.
I'm sure the energy and excitement
released in this course could light an entire community. One of the Crones
remarked on her evaluation: "[This course] has given me a lot more confidence
in myself, knowing that I can walk the streets or be more comfortable living
alone now that I have learned how to defend myself if I am ever attacked."
- Women of all ages who suffer or have suffered from panic
attacks gathered to form a much needed self-help group called Listening to Our
Bodies. This group often serves as a consciousness-raising forum where we
rediscover that the violence committed against us throughout our lives is the
product of our experiences, not the imagining of our crazy minds. We learn that
fear and panic are a direct result of living in a patriarchal and misogynous
society. We take back our power as women, we celebrate our
herstories/chronchroneologies and the links between generations of women are
newly remembered as we demand the validity of our feelings, and the right to a
safe and healthy life.
- Members of the Senior Citizens' Council gathered with women
of all ages and from numerous communities on the island of Montreal two years
ago to participate in the annual Take Back The Night march. The streets are
often intimidating for most women but many elders are isolated in their homes
for fear of getting attacked should they dare venture out-of-doors.
Participation in the Assault Prevention Class inspired our courage to march
through the streets, and at night.
One of the women who "didn't believe
in marches" participated in the event as well as the Assault Prevention class.
Last year she rallied to get an additional, parallel march organized in the NDG
community since a disproportionate number of older women live in this part of
Montreal, though she received little support. She also ran for and got herself
elected to one of the hospital boards on the island to fight for better
health-care for older women and men. A little inspiration goes a long, long
way.
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