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To alone time - to
spend some time on my own, to be by myself even when I fell pressured to do
something with others.
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To be independent
- to maintain my own individuality in life.
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To say no without
feeling guilty or self-centered - even when others say or think it is wrong or
selfish.
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To ask for what I
want - and to respect the answer
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To make mistakes
and be responsible for the outcomes; the right to be less than perfect.
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To be listened to
and heard - not necessarily be agreed with, but to have a particular point of
view.
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To choose how I
behave passive, assertive or aggressive.
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To the ownership
of my own feelings - regardless of how appropriate or "correct"
others judge them.
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To be successful -
to measure this by my own standards, even when others may not do as well or
when others do better.
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