In Our Words Canadians Reading Together

Having known Ralph Geo as a neighbour for twenty years I became accustomed to his many moods and gruff manner on a daily basis. Ralph’s behaviour originated from childhood experiences he had with his father while driving. On numerous occasions, Ralph had witnessed a display of impatience, inappropriate slurs and a fierce temper to the point of negligence. There were quite a few incidents and traffic violations from adolescent years. Due to these circumstances Ralph experiences major anxieties while driving, which in turn contributes to his road rage and carelessness.

Ralph was still grumbling and complaining. “I hate being late for work and to top it all off, my car is a wreck!” “Your car is not a wreck Ralph. It is drive-able and can be fixed when the insurance is settled. I’ve got my cell phone. Would you like me to call your boss and explain what has happened? This is a circumstance your boss will understand.” Ralph responded, “You’re right Shelly, give him a call, while I compose myself and apologize to that poor woman.”

Ralph appeared calmer as he looked up at me, “I’m sorry for any trouble I’ve caused you.” As Ralph stood there with his disheveled look and tousled, fuzzy hair, I saw a smile start to develop. “Phone call is made, now lets go take care of the insurance information.” “Sure Shelly, let’s get this done, so we can all get to work.” Ralph thanked me by saying, “You always seem to be there, when I need help! Thank you again.” “No problem Ralph, anything for a friend.” I got back in my car and continued my drive to work with a smile on my face, taking in the blue, blue sky and the sounds of the birds.