Half of the interviewees were expected to achieve either a college diploma
or university degree while the other half was expected to complete high school
only. One respondent said her parents (neither of whom graduated from high school)
often told their children, “Don’t be like us.”
Another
person said, “Education was extremely emphasized but it was not the
be all and end all of life.”
One person said, “If we didn’t
get As, we would get in trouble.”
Table 9 shows the distribution and some of the comments interviewees provided about their parents’ expectations.
Fourteen respondents from all occupation categories recalled their parents
helping with homework. For some, help was provided only if it was requested
while other parents sat with their children as they did school work. One person
said, "Dad tried to help with homework but it didn’t always work.
They were taught differently."
Another said it was usually her mother who
helped with homework.